Saturday, December 28, 2013

Look Who's Curled Up With a Good Book




This makes my heart happy. Really happy.

Wenxin, adopted from China at age 7 1/2.

No spoken English. Zero. Nada. Zip.

He spoke Chinese, of course, but he'd never been to school in China and couldn't read his own language.

So for the last three years, I've had simple educational goals for Wenxin -- goals that will set the stage for a lifetime of learning.

1. Bonding and learning to be a family.  This was really a goal for all of us, not just Wenxin. At first glance, it doesn't even seem educational. But if there was no attachment, no becoming a family, then nothing else would really matter. So for the first months home, while we did dive right into academic schoolwork, it wasn't all that important to me. Doing schoolwork together was just a means to another end. We were getting to know one another. We were growing to love each other. We were becoming a family.

2. Fluency in spoken English. Not much to add here because immersed in a family of big talkers, this one happened naturally.

3. Literacy. I wanted him to read fluently, and I wanted him to love to read. It was kind of like pushing a boulder up the side of a mountain.

So this morning, when he curled up in a chair with one of his Christmas books and read it from cover to cover, I ran for my camera to record the moment. OK, I'll confess that he only did this after I banned the new XBOX until everyone read a little. Still, he read the whole book in one sitting.

I see the doors of learning swinging open wide for my boy, and I can't help but smile.

BTW, did you see my Christmas in Photos post? Click here to take a look.

Ni Hao Yall

4 comments:

  1. It's truly lovely to see the way you encourage and support your children. Wenxin is really flourishing, and I can tell he is going to go from strength to strength over the next few years!!

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  2. What an awesome sight. Go Wenxin! :) My main education goals for my future children is 1) to learn how to learn and 2) to foster a love for learning/reading. With those two goals, I think children could learn and do anything they set their minds to! My husband and I are both big readers and hope to encourage that love in our children!

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  3. I love little readers! What a great sight to see! I also love Wenxin's name. Very sweet post : )! Congratulations on raising a book lover.

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